Smmfh. WHEN will it end? Random thought of the hour.
For all the times you’ve inspired me; backatcha.
Love to you & your gorgeous family, Erik.
|—||Paulo Coelho (via onlinecounsellingcollege)|
When you start a new relationship, you always want it to work in a perfect way and you do anything and everything towards the betterment of it. But in some circumstances you don’t even realize how weak it has become until it falls apart completely. With the help of these few suggestions you can get an idea of when it is the right time to turn away:
1. You ignore the red flags. Even from the beginning you ignore the red flags that clearly indicate that the person you are going out with is not the right one for you. But you keep on going to fulfill your need of love.
2. Every channel of communication fails. If you have tried everything that could save your relationship by keeping open all lines of communication, you tried talking to them but still the situation has further dropped down to a negative level, it means you need to get away as soon as you can. There is nothing left for you in it any more.
3. You feel mistreated. Everyone deserves to be happy when they are with someone and you deserve it as well. If you feel mistreated most of the time because your partner ignores you or doesn’t care for you the way you do for them, you should stop trying anymore and leave them for good.